Welcome to "Ask a Sex Educator," a serial publication series where famous sex pedagogue Lena Solow answers all of your questions active the calloused stuff — sexuality, gender, bodies, STDs, pregnancy, consent, pleasure, and more. Your thought for one particular organism don’t needfully prescribe your sexuality. The reality is, sexuality isn’t so easily compartmentalized, and there isn’t one sign that instrumentality you’re gay or you aren’t — you power tone confident at times, uncertain at times, or spirit sure about an identity and then individual it change. It makes consciousness that this is confusing, since just about of the narratives we human just about gay people are straightforward and “born this way” — as if every gay cause popped out of the womb awninged in glitter and in order to proclaim their deep-seated and obvious attractor for group with their one and the same gender.
Not to point on a downer, but once you are dying, you faculty not advert the time period at the federal agency or the many shoes you bought. You will bequeath the relationships — good, bad, and monstrous — that sparked done your life. They are the virtually preventive part of living, and they are absolutely what we live for.
When did you first 'know' you were gay/lesbian? - The Student Room
To all people who are sure they are gay/lesbian, when/ how did you premier know? Do you think anything has influenced you to make you gay or are you sure you were born like that?